Sunday, March 7, 2010

Nurture Being That Fat Girl

Whether you are tall, short, fat, skinny, beautiful or ugly (whatever that is) ...all are welcome when it comes to the entertainment world.

Its not what we are that really matters, its how we carry it. I often find men and women who feel that they need to lose like 15 pounds (and don't get me wrong - some people do) but there are those who are simply losing weight for they feel the need to compete in a truly unproductive genre for them.

Do not beat yourself up to lose weight or to get your face fixed...enjoy what and who you are today. There is beauty in that. Each of us were given different looks, sizes and personalities and we need to fine tune what makes us different rather than trying to be a part of what has already been done.

I love to tell my students...if your the big girl...than love being that big girl. If you are the awkward person in most conversations...and can't ever seem to get a date...than be that awkward non dating individual that makes everyone around them uncomfortable...lol...but do it with class. Be who you are and love it, dress it and give it. Seek to be the best you!

I love when I see someone do something with their material that makes me think twice, something that is very real and honest, something that is so a part of who they are. If you are comfortable with who you are - your size, your look, your you - then everything you deliver will naturally be true to yourself and the vulnerable part of what anybody wants to see.

Stop trying to be someone you are not...nurture who you truly are...and showcase that in your delivery!

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